I don’t think I’ve ever done this before, but I’m going to share some links at the bottom of this post that I’ve come across in the past few weeks (since the beginning of the new year). This is part of my OLW of initiate. I’m taking initiative to share.
As I wrote in my original post about selecting this word, I often have ideas to share with folks but get shy about approaching them for fear I’ll be interrupting or bothering them by bringing my idea to them.
I’ve made some progress in this area in the last couple of weeks, which includes doing things like feeling called to pray with someone and actually approaching them about it and praying with them. Or getting a brainstorm of an idea (meaning I thought of it, but I’m not wedded to it, just feel like it might be worthy of exploring and helpful in the process of sorting something out), and speaking it out loud to those who might consider it.
Funny thing this Initiate word. A woman whose wisdom I value greatly and who knows my family and I well offered me a suggestion last week. She advised me to take off my filter on ideas and opinions and speak my mind more. I’d been holding back as I try to figure out how others will respond to my ideas, and she indicated it is time to let others be responsible for their own reaction to my ideas. My ideas are mine, their reaction is theirs. I’m not responsible for their reactions.
I know, what a concept, huh!
It is profound how well this approach fits right in with the idea of initiate. Her assignment to me of not filtering puts this whole word into a more powerful context for me than I ever dreamed.
So, back to the links thing. I’m sharing because I think these are neat posts. Maybe your reaction will be different from mine. I’m not going to worry about it.
Although, really, these are pretty safe because I don’t think any of them are terribly controversial. None are religious or political – they are all style/photography/creative related. So any disagreement about them being cool links would only be about taste I suppose.
Enough stalling, here are the links, with a little comment from me about what I loved.
Russian Mother’s Beautiful Photos
I just love this whole thing. I am amazed at this woman’s photography – and a bit envious at her skill and abilities, especially after such a short time of being focused on photography.
Succulents as wedding flowers
I like all these photos, but what I really got excited about was the unusual use of succulents in the wedding flowers/decor. Super cool!
Totally Cool Wedding in Vermont
This link is to a photographer my mentor suggested I follow because he does inspiring work and has a real fun attitude about it. I’m not always sure I like everything he does or the way he presents himself – pushes my boundaries in some ways. But I loved this wedding location and some of the ideas in it – plus the photography is pretty cool too.
So that is the update from me on initiating. And, by the way, these are all old photos posted last year because Andy has the computer where my photos are at court in a jury trial – not sure the judge would appreciate me running in there to blog while the trial is going on, so it is make due time. This was not an appropriate place to initiate and not worry about the judge’s reaction. I am smart enough to know that.