This seems to be one of those seasons. Here we are, being busy with little out of the ordinary to show for it.
So we are going to take a few days and do something special as a family. School is out for a four-day weekend and we re-arranged the office schedule some. Time to slow down, take a deep breath, and just be family together. A chance to change the cadence of our lives a little.A refocusing. As we refocus we are reminded of all the goodness God grants into our lives even during the seasons of being too busy:
3644. Family who lives close enough to visit for a weekend – this is new for us!
3647. Money on hand to fix the Subaru.
3648. Support from a friend.
3649. Family discussion over dinner – and a chance to eat dinner together
3650. Email of affirmation.
3652. Order from the court signed quickly.
3653. Safe travel to and from Helena for Andy.
3654. J signed up for ice climbing clinic
3655. A good school for J.
3657. Getting to see the lunar eclipse (or at least the tail end of it)
3659. New walking/running shoes at a great price – and they feel great!
3660. Enough money to pay bills fairly comfortably.
3661. Trees with red leaves sprinkled around town.
3662. Miss M. allowing some help for the abuse she suffered
3664. Orders of Protection in place for friends who need it.
3665. J holding steady on his grades at a place that surpasses his own expectations.
3666. Hearing the wind whistle and howl while I am safely in the house.
3667. Subaru fixed after two weeks, and a fair price set for the work.
3668. Less debt now than a year ago – progress!
3669. Great photo shoot with a high school senior.
3670. Donna hearing some encouraging words.
3671. The hope that comes from planning a few days off.
3673. Andy’s detailed knowledge of the law.
3674. Being able to breathe on the days when events seem so heavy that breathing might not be possible.
3675. Sleeping through the night – at least once in-a-while.
ONE: This week five on Fridays is decorated by photos of Miss E. She is 4 and was honored to be the flower girl for Miss Amanda back in August. The trouble was that Miss E’s mom and dad had a huge job to do the day of the wedding and could not attend. Mom was crushed – tears and all. Who could blame her? Miss Amanda is special to their family and this was a huge deal.
So the solution was for Miss Susan Beth to hang out with Miss E all day and take photos so mom and dad could relive the day. What a fun day!
TWO: This week was a big jury trial for Andy – after three full days it ended in a hung jury, which is both a victory and a frustration. Onward!THREE: This week has driven home a sense of vulnerability in so many ways. Bringing me back to “Daring Greatly” for assurance that being vulnerable is not a bad thing. Just have to keep on living with a whole heart, knowing that there will be bumps in the road, ditches to slide into, and crashes along the way. But that is okay because we may not have all the answers to life’s questions but we know who we are in Christ.
FOUR: Headed out to early morning before school worship team activity for J on Tuesday and thud! No more functioning in the Subaru. It broke the timing belt, which took out all the valves in the engine. Faced the choice of fixing it or having a good start to the purchase of a new to us vehicle. Decided to fix it and move forward. This is the danger of having only cars with around 200K miles (truck is well over, Subaru is closing in fast). Cars are definitely not a source of glamor in our lives, and probably that is as it should be.
FIVE: It is October! Can you believe it? So many seasonal activities and projects that bring comfort, joy, hard work and warmth. I believe this will be a very busy month but also, I pray, a very rewarding month. Andy has yet another jury trial coming up at the end of October and lots to do between now and then, so we are hitting the ground running!
There is so much to be thankful for in this life and I don’t ever want to forget it.
3628. A day at home doing chores as a family.
3629. Good family walk/talk.
3630. J joining the adults to celebrate a 75th birthday party after being specially invited by the birthday girl.
3631. Studying the Christmas story in detail.
3632. Forgiveness from friends after a mis-step.
3633. Support from Andy in an emotionally difficult time.
3634. Connecting with Alicia.
3635. Plenty of rain to keep the countryside fresh and green well into the fall.
3636. Bumper crop of apples – enough to share with friends
3637. J getting to participate in homecoming traditions for first time.
3638. Good advice from Jeremy.
3639. Knowledge that God is in control when things seem to be flying out of control.
3640. Paul’s good music leadership at worship.
3641. Cooking with fresh eggs
3642. Beautiful place to live all year-long – stunning views of storms coming in.
3643. Family who lives close enough to visit for a weekend.
Been a while since I did a five on Friday so thought I’d go for it again. And it has been a while since I’ve focused on my boy, so this time, five photos and five facts focused on my so.
It was weird to take photos during a worship service, but what mom could resist memorializing her son’s participation as part of the worship team. This was actually his second service participating. It isn’t every week that he plays his cajon, but he really looks forward to it. He’s working towards playing the full drum set in a service, and since his drum teacher is also the worship leader for the service we attend, I think he’ll get there.
TWO:J is a very social guy – loves to be with his peers and loves to attend family orientated activities. He’s got friends from our Bible Study/church group, friends from his current school, friends from his old school, and friends from karate. Some of his friends (as above) are younger, especially at karate. But at school many of his friends are older (he eats lunch with the Juniors). And since he moved up to the adult class at karate, he is putting his ability to relate to adults to good use and has lots of adult friends. Just this week he was the only under 40 invited to a birthday party for a woman turning 75, and she was very specific she wanted him there. Socially he’s in good shape.
Although he doesn’t have a girl friend, or date (or even express an interest in actual dating) he has consistently shown himself to be a gentleman with the girls his age. Here he went back, got his shoes wet, and helped his friend from Bible Study across when she got nervous about balancing over the creek.
I know I recently posted about how he has a friend from kindergarten - well, he’s known the girl in this picture and her sister since he was three, and we did a couple of hikes with her family this summer.
J is playful and competitive. These four kids are the four who went to the Karate National Championship competition together back in July, and they love to play together – and most of their play includes some sort of competition. But we are blessed that J is generally a well-rounded competitor.
He does not like to lose, but he is gracious when it does happen. And he’s learned in the last year or so not to be so discouraged by a loss that he gives up. In fact, we saw it at the National Championship tournament – he did not place in the Kata competition on Friday and was very disappointed in that, but he held it together
J will tell you that he doesn’t want to “hike” but once you get him out there he does pretty well and enjoys himself. What he really likes are extreme sports like ice climbing, snow boarding fast, rock climbing, mountain biking and things that generally give him an adrenalin rush. So when I take him hiking he does things like scale the cliff along the trail (see above).
These were taken on the first day of fall, which seems so appropriate.
It wasn’t as cold standing in the water that morning as I thought it would be, so that was a plus!
My beautiful chickens have been so fun this past year!
They are still fun, but now the Americanas are molting and just aren’t as beautiful as they once were. The Rhode Island Reds aren’t molting yet, so they are still beautiful.
Poor little girls! Poor us, because when the molt, well, they don’t lay eggs! We really miss their beautiful blue green eggs!
When not molting they are very reliable layers, more than carrying their weight in the production business.
These photos are from a couple of weeks ago, so they are starting to look a bit better.
Hopefully that means we’ll have blue-green eggs again soon.
But then I fully expect all 6 Rhode Island Reds to molt at the same time, and we’ll be missing the brown eggs.
From a week ago or so!It didn’t last long – just into the mid morning.
But now this field is harvested.
The snow must not have done too much harm.
Made for a beautiful opportunity to pull over on the way into town and get a few shots.
Did get my shoes pretty muddy as I approached the field, but it was worth it.